For several years I’ve been strong critic of the television show Jon and Kate Plus Eight.  This popular program follows the day-to-day challenges of Jon and Kate Gosselin as they raise their eight children, six of which were the product of the same pregnancy.  I objected to the premise because of what I suspected it would ultimately cause, if the show turned out to be “successful” (i.e. a big money-maker), namely the celebritizing and sensationalizing of the Gosselin family and all of the devastating pressures and temptations this would inevitably bring.  Well, now having just begun its fifth season, those pop culture chickens are coming home to roost, as the season premier (viewed by 9.8 million people) has revealed the depths of John and Kate’s marital problems.  As the Marxists used to say about capitalism, from the start the whole Jon and Kate television project contained within itself the seeds of its own destruction. 

jon_kate_eightLest we pity them too much, we must remember that this was a choice they made.  No one forced them to put their lives on display before millions.  For the Gosselins, the price was right.  Or so they thought.  And now, well, they’re paying the price for volunteering themselves and their children for the American celebrity machine—which is more like a soul-eating monster.  It’s just a shame that they have also served up their children as a meal.

This program is, as they say, wrong at so many levels.  It promotes many lies and vices, and here are just a few.

J&K+8 perpetuates lies about fame and wealth.  One of the enticing aspects of the show is its insinuation that the resources the program provides the Gosselins could help them in raising so many children.  “Look how they are able to take all of those trips and have so many wonderful experiences that they otherwise couldn’t have!” viewers remark.  Such an attitude naively overlooks the myriad problems caused by celebrity.  Here someone might retort, “Ah, but don’t the Gosselins’ problems actually remind us of the fact that fame and wealth don’t bring happiness?”  To which I reply, “At what price?  The mental health and moral well-being of their children?”  Furthermore, it is doubtful that viewers will see the implosion of their marriage as anything but mistakes made by the Gosselins independently of their fame and wealth.  Alas, the real lessons here are lost on most viewers, and the lies are only reinforced.

J&K+8 invites gossip.  When I hear people recount the salacious details of the Gosselins’ troubled marriage, I can’t help but conclude that something is terribly awry.  Would we talk openly about the marital problems of church friends or neighbors?  And in front of our kids?  Good grief, no!  Yet because J&K+8 plops it all right in our laps, we are invited to chat about it all in frank terms.  And if we can do so regarding the Gosselins, then why not about anyone else?  J&K+8—like so many reality-TV shows—makes the gossip mentality contagious.

J&K+8 is essentially child abuse.  Yes, those are strong words, but hear me out.  All of the research indicates that severe marital problems and divorce are harmful to children.  I need not count the ways here.  To create a situation in which a marriage is aggravated by the trappings of celebrity (e.g., constant intrusions and loss of privacy, temptations of self-importance, increased time away from one’s kids, etc.), thus compounding the already difficult challenges of raising so many children, is cruel and abusive.  And to justify this in the name of entertainment and advertising dollars (despite the euphemisms one might use to rationalize it) only makes the whole racket more pernicious.  The Gosselin kids are being harmed by all of this, as nearly ten million Americans glibly look on, too preoccupied by their own amusement to recognize the moral and psychological carnage they are witnessing.

3 Responses to “What’s Wrong with Jon and Kate”

  1. Shirley


    I’d suggest that you send your blog-post to Entertainment Tonight or some other such show (any other show names elude me at the moment). You never know if at least some of it might be shared with a larger audience.

  2. Andy Rowell


    Yours was the first post I saw about the show but now I see lots of people talking about it.

    The Cost of Fame: “Jon & Kate Plus 8”
    Posted May 27th by Jerod Clark

    May 28, 2009
    Jon and Kate Plus a Lot of Bitterness
    The Gosselins need to confess their sins to Christian friends rather than to the TV camera.
    by Lynn Roush, guest blogger

    The Gospel and the Gosselins
    Evangelicals and the making of Jon & Kate Plus Eight.
    Julie Vermeer Elliott
    posted 6/01/2009

    “Jon & Kate Plus 8” Continues Ratings Roll
    June 2, 2009

    The links for the above were rejected as spam so I am posting the comment without them. You can google the titles and find the posts.

  3. Blackwasp19


    I share many of the same frustrations as you do. Additionally, I have been taken aback by the Evangelical embrace of this family. Not including the issues you already listed perhaps the most painful aspect of this show is the way Jon and Kate interact with one another, specifically as they hold to be Christians.

    I wrote some about it on my blog because it just seems that their local community of believers and the Christian community should have been calling them to a much better relationship one in which Kate is not domineering and Jon is not apathetic. The fact that Christianity Today, Zondervan – even up to publishing Kate’s new book in April 2009 – and other venues of Christian media embrace and endorsed this couple astounded and disappoints me.

    I pray they find reconciliation with one another and God and I pray that Christians become more discerning in what they support.


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